"the same mindset that created the problem can't solve it" - albers?
You know that if you say your negative outloud you sound…
well, you know what, let's try it.
write your negative thoughts, and then answer yourself like a you are talking to a friend, from a point of your of your strongest, most calm you. You can also answer other's negative thoughts and try to help them reframe it and see .
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it's just how you speak. the more you practice speaking this way, the less the negative thoughts will go away
Use this format:
my negative self: "[enter toughts]
My best self: [enter your kind words as a response]